Gift + Get: Thoughtful and Unusual Thanksgiving Host Gifts

If you’re lucky enough to become “family for a day” at a Thanksgiving celebration, offer a thank-you gift to your host—on top of your family-recipe sweet potatoes! Thanksgiving is no run-of-the-mill dinner party. A bottle of wine or scented candle are acceptable, but not as creative a gift as you could (and I believe should) offer. When choosing a present for this special day of gratitude, opt for something to match the spirit of the celebration. Here’s what I love to give (and get!). —Sally Horchow, creator and host of the website VeryGoodLooking

The great gift-givers’ secret weapon is museum shops. Buying a plate from Plimoth Plantation is a no-brainer. The stoneware depicts the Pilgrims’ landing on Plymouth Rock. $29.95.

Since few things say “stress” like hosting Thanksgiving, appeal to your host’s sense of humor (or what’s left of it). Jonathan Adler’s 2″ x 2″ ceramic Xanax container will lift spirits and signify that you appreciate what she is going through—and want to alleviate, rather than add to, the anxiety. $28

A decorative tray in autumn colors can convey what you’re hoping to express in a seasonal way. And such all-purpose elements of décor never go out of style. (They can hold keys or serve as design accents in any room.) If your host has artistic leanings she’ll appreciate the acclaimed John Derian aesthetic. $66 each

Most cut flowers last a fleeting week or so, but a bonsai tree from Gump’s can brighten a room for years. Surprisingly, this miniature doesn’t require a lot of care to stay healthy. $95

After Thanksgiving, your host may take a breather before throwing big dinner parties for a while. But when he does get back into the swing of entertaining, this beautiful Scully & Scully planner will serve as his leather-bound assistant. $95